You’re not alone if, behind the tropical beauty, you feel a knot of anxiety. In 2025, sorrow over shootings and skyrocketing traffic deaths is cropping up increasingly in everyday conversations, at least that is what I experienced.


Traffic Fatalities in Free Fall

Contributing behaviors: rampant speeding, DUI, texting while driving, and low seatbelt use. Nearly half of fatal crashes involve alcohol—above the national rate of 35–37% .


Shootings: A Worrying Weekly Beat

Though overall violent crime has stayed relatively stable or even dipped, homicides and shootings have surged in Hawaii:

Voices from the community:

“Lots more shootings (not always lethal), which I think also contributes to that perception.” reddit.com+6reddit.com+6reddit.com+6

“Had shootings in Aiea, 2 in Nanakuli, Moiliili, Kaimuki… Kalihi isn’t the only messed up area, everywhere is messed up.” hawaiinewsnow.com+2reddit.com+2reddit.com+2

These aren’t isolated whispers—they reflect a rising sense of vulnerability: shootings “week after week” in familiar neighborhoods.


🧭 Between Perception & Reality

It’s true: overall crime (assaults, robberies, property crimes) is down. But human minds fixate on the alarming. One sociologist notes that murder, though still rare, shifts dramatically with small changes—making “one or two extra homicides a month” resonate like a crisis civilbeat.org.

Meanwhile, gaping homeless encampments or street incidents fuel a narrative of danger, even when hard stats say otherwise civilbeat.org. Still, this doesn’t ease the genuine fear people feel when stepping out—or preparing to celebrate.


Family and Friend Gatherings: Hope vs. Fear

Special events should be moments of joy and community. But with the trend lines, uneasiness remains at the back of my mind.


🛠 System-Wide Responses

Progress is happening—but the human impact right now is real and raw.


🕯 Final Thoughts

Hawaiʻi remains one of the safest places in America. But in 2025, the convergence of rising traffic deaths and recurring shootings has disrupted that sense of security. I am feeling uneasy today as I prepare for a graduation celebration tonight.

I will, well we all will need to, learn to trust in small acts of vigilance—staying aware, traveling with friends, and leaning on my community. Focus on the resilience that brings us together: Celebrating achievements, supporting one another, taking care of our streets and each other.

Let the gatherings be not just a moment of celebration—but a testament to community strength. While the world outside may feel shaky, inside those walls where we celebrate, let love, pride, and shared care shine through…well, at least try.


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